Insights from Sean Garvey

My trip to Kenya this winter break was pivotal. Returning for the second time made the experience even more profound. What stood out the most was the absolute primacy of relationships – how important relationships are and what a difference they can make. I can say without reservation, “This trip was filled with some of the greatest hearts I have ever encountered.” We had fun; we spoke openly and deeply, and I found that everywhere I turned, there was someone interesting and genuine with whom I could connect.   

Visiting Kibera, I saw that the relationships built years earlier had lasted, and forming new ones felt even more natural. Starting conversations can be challenging at first, but each person was as interested in me as I was in them. The connections and conversations were definitely the most stimulating and heartwarming aspect of the trip. 

On the trip, building relationships with the teachers, staff, students, and local workers became a priority for everyone.   For me, a highlight was reconnecting with my mentee, Dass, from two and a half years ago.  I was able to reconnect with his parents, visit his high school, and even introduce him to my mother and brother over lunch. This brought such joy to both of us. The last time I saw him, he was in seventh grade at FAFU school, and all I knew was how much he loved soccer. Now, several years later, he’s a prefect at his high school, an incredible drummer, a talented chef, and eager to take on leadership roles. Dass's hard work and big heart ended up mentoring me more than I mentored him. Now, a month later, I am aware of how much this experience has inspired me and filled me with deep and lasting joy.

My second trip to Kenya showed me how important it is for human beings to keep expanding the web of relationships. This kind of expansion promises to keep pulling me back to experiences like this one. The work CT does in Kibera is about far more than just building schools. It’s about building communities focused on a brighter future for every child. These schools are not just concerned about academics but also personal development and leadership, equipping students with the skills to succeed anywhere in the world. 
Being part of the Crossing Thresholds family has been a blessing to me.  The lessons learned promise to stay with me for a lifetime.
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- Sean Garvey
Crossing Thresholds Trip Volunteer and Mentor